Disorganized Disorder
Negative view of self & others
b. Disorganized Disorder and Intimacy
1. Approach avoidance – clinging to distancing2. Help-reject-complain
3. Fearful
4. Switch between Avoidant & Ambivalent
An individual attachment style is comprised of decissions"I" have made about my world , myself and others. Those decissions that "I " have made and believe to be true explains my understanding of the priniples, the rules, an the emotions of my relationships. My actions reveal if I am operating the way I am designed to operate in love or why my actions don't work when I am operating fear.
"For God did not give us a spirit of timidity (of cowardice, of craven and cringing and fawning fear), but [He has given us a spirit] of power and of love and of calm and well-balanced mind and discipline and self-control."
2 Timothy 1:7 (AMP)
Disorganized Attachment Style NEGATIVE view of SELF / NEGATIVE view of OTHERS
There is no grass Satan lied to us about having to water the grass! “Neither one of us knows who to trust.” GREATEST NEED. Salvation. Find something they can trust in.