Secure Attachment
Positive view of self & others
a. Secure Attachment and Emotions
1. Comfortable with their own feelingsand comfortable with other’s
feelings
b. Secure Attachment and Intimacy
1. Moves toward you in conflict andattempts to connect relationally
An individual attachment style is comprised of decissions"I" have made about my world , myself and others. Those decissions that "I " have made and believe to be true explains my understanding of the priniples, the rules, an the emotions of my relationships. My actions reveal if I am operating the way I am designed to operate in love or why my actions don't work when I am operating fear.
"For God did not give us a spirit of timidity (of cowardice, of craven and cringing and fawning fear), but [He has given us a spirit] of power and of love and of calm and well-balanced mind and discipline and self-control."
2 Timothy 1:7 (AMP)
Secure Attachment Style POSITIVE view of SELF/POSITIVE view of OTHER
Green Pastures “ We have that loving feeling.” God says we are both designed in His image